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Friday, May 1, 2009

...Aquarius's Problem...

Hey gals,
today is been a bad day for me...
when i was almost finish my work n getting all stuff like sweeping, mopping, and cleaning all the tools for the next working day, while me n my colleagues (*another two) were doing cleaning....
the A (*the bad one) was sweeping the floor while the B(*less bad one) were mopping...n im cleaning the pedicure basin.. the A finish sweeping...and she wanna clean the rubbishes....take it to throw..then she started to blames that :-
Situation 1
A:"who put this here de wor? aiyo..."
B:"not me wor....i dunno"
A:"not u ar...den must be that person la...y she so no "sao mei" geh??"
*that person i think refers to me lor...
Situation 2
A:"y the rubbish bin de pail doesnt put back geh??"
B:"how i know jek?"
A:"aiyo....she again ar??"
Situation 3
i bring my laptop...n today i shut it down earlier..normally if i was waiting for my bf, i still stay in there 5 more minutes...but today he will be here earlier..so i shut down my laptop....
A:"WAH...not yet 8 o'clock already shut down the computer...y today so earlier geh....??"
*obviously...that persons talking about me....

fren, i did nothing...wat i do oso part of her business??
WTF man..she think she's the boss...???
even my boss oso dare not blame me like this...
p.s. and she talk loudly in those three situation...

then, my bf was here to pick me up for dinner...haiz...actually this few days..i discovered problem between us..like he keep on blaming that he is poor...even wat topic v talk about,he will turn it on his situation..."haiz...have to go petrol station again...bankcrupt purchasing petrol....!!"
i just pretend speechlesss at the side...wat can i do...?? or wat can i said??
do u think that I dun really sacrifice?? He was so good in talking n i know i wont talk winning him...tats y i choose to be speechless...

I wanted to tell him im having a bad day...but in this situation,how am i suppose to tell him tat..?? im not in the mood dy...
i was super super not "song" with the A...that makes me have to call my sister to release myself...if not, i m going to explode...
then he use to said that i doesnt DISCUSS with he that i got outing with my frens...he said that i was just INFORM him that..but u know wat..??
tomorrow is Labour Day..i was off..n he is just INFORM me that he will going out with his buddy...see, diff between MAN n WOMAN...n i ask him...where u all going? I DUNO YET...what time u all going ?day or night? R U TRY TO ASK A CRIMINAL QUESTION?? no,i just curious ma...BUT U MORE ALIKE TREAT ME AS A CRIMINAL LOR...!!! *speechless*

another thing, last saturday,the guy that i met in my college,the one that i have kinda feelings on him called me up....(*actually v keep in touch de la...) u know wat, he ask me to give him a goodnight kiss...haiz...wat he intend to do??

GUYS>>>>>TROUBLE!!!
careful gals...treat urself a good one....
GOD , WAT HAPPEN TO AQUARIUS??

7 comments:

Pearlene Rosanne said...

Joan, after chatting with u,v both realized that there's a lot of similarities between us...collecting 50 cent coins,Hello kitty,and so on...
u know wat,u said cry and shout is the best way to release ourselves..but who knows i nvr cry under my pillow to avoiding woke my sis up...or cry in the bathroom...sometimes even cry in the dream...i tried all the way not to let my family know..i know that this is reality..v have to take it as v grow..i know ur feeling..HARD FEELING!! it really does HURT!

bLacKie said...

水瓶座的问题?!
拜托...这是所有人的问题!!!
工作上一定会遇到不快乐的...

要常常告诉自己,工作并不是为了生气哦...
把自己的EQ提炼一下...
那你就不会被那些无谓的人破坏你的情绪啦...
(而且他们也只不过想你不开心而已...如果你Nuo无其事,
不就可以把他们给气回吗!!hahaha..够毒吧!!)

适当的发泄是好事,可是千万别发在别人身上..
尤其时至亲...那只会弄坏你们的关系..
而你也并没有好过些....
所以最好的发泄工具还是这里...
让我们为你分享...为你加油...
时时刻刻提醒你...hehehe...
(好像在卖广告...没办法啦!!!经济不好..成员又不争气...
这里的生意很难做的啊!!)

哈哈哈..开玩笑的啦!!我是真的很想分享的!!

至于爱情嘛..hmmm...怎说呢!!
以前他常觉得你是酱的..
当然现在他自己做时,也不以为然啦!!
所以体谅体谅吧...毕竟你也试过将对他啊!!

其实我觉得你应该学会不时常依赖他...
当然我不是叫你完全不依赖...
因为适当的依赖也是好的!!
至少可以让他觉得自己在你心里有重要啦!!
可是那只是适当哦...
有时可以不依赖的话就最好..那他不会觉得你烦..
当他不在你身边时,你也不会太难过日子...
(我不是指分手而是他出国或什么的..)

哎哟,我表达能力有限啦!!
希望你明白...

cHeEr up, mY gaL....

Joan said...

don too depend on guy i am the example...see now im like a dead fish u all shud noe dy...guys are so scary, if u changed a bit i meant our attitude they blame on u n all tt will be ur fault but when they did all the things tht u don like v gals mus accept n ignore n pretend nothing happen...gal will always being hurt the most in a relationship n guys r always the one who can forget easily n they will give all kind of reasons n excuses when they want to break up n they wont put a thought on the route tht they went before...sometimes guys bullshit a lot too...guy can only be describe in one word~~~烦!

sometimes living in the world with only gals is not a bad thing oso at least gal noe each other feeling more than a guy did...guys r lazy to think how a gal feel n dun really care gal's feeling....i prefer a world with only gals now....

bLackie said...

Disagree with you, JOan!!!

其实不管男子或女子都一样!!
只要哪一方面先抽离,哪一方面就会忘记以前的承诺~~
然后做出一些伤害另一方面的事..(另一方面觉得!!)
冷静想清楚一点:如果你是对方,同样发现你不再爱对方了..
你会怎样做?!选择拖拖拉拉?!和他一样?!

我们应该感谢他们~~~
因为如果他们不坚决,选择拖拖拉拉的话,
最后受伤的还是我们自己,对不?!

在我的世界里,女的和男的一样...
不是悲观...而是事实...
同性的也未必每个都顾及同性的感受啊!!!
反而有时异性比较了解!!

女的并不代表没有玩弄其他男子的感情~~
女的并不代表没有不负责任~~
用'烦'一个字来形容的不应该是男子而是爱情~~~

Pearlene Rosanne said...
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Pearlene Rosanne said...

慧娟,在你看来,水瓶座真的有那么坚强吗?
其实,我有时候和他吵架,吵得面红耳赤的时候,我也想要忍着泪水,勇敢的跟他拼了!但是,泪水都不自觉得往下掉!
不论是不是初恋,只要你是真心的去爱那个人,你就会不自觉的往内陷了吧!

[爱情,就像在煮开水!开始的时候,水一直加温,就像是一直加关心,爱心,甜蜜!
当水在沸腾,就是爱情最浓烈的时候,
当然,当水开始蒸发,爱情也同时在渐渐的磨灭!
爱情,是需要一直加水,让它保持一定的新鲜,要一直有不同的惊喜!这样,爱情才能够长久!]

难道,我的爱情之水快蒸发完了吗?

但是,如果一段感情,你没有用心去经营,反而事事计较,每天提醒自己不要放太多感情,不要陷太进去,那爱情会结果吗?

The Virtue of Love is not finding a right person but is to love the imperfect person perfectly...

bLacKie said...

嗯...水瓶座总比双鱼座坚强....
哭不代表懦弱...不代表软弱...

你说的对...The Virtue of Love is not finding a right person but is to love the imperfect person perfectly...

如果一段感情,你没有用心去经营,反而事事计较,每天提醒自己不要放太多感情,不要陷太进去,那爱情会结果吗?
我觉得这样的爱情也不会长久...如果真是要酱...
那倒不如自己一个人生活...何必爱的那么辛苦....

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